He flirts overtly with women—even when you're with him—and says it's harmless.
He is someone who wants to be taken care of. He's looking for a mommy, or she's looking for a sugar daddy!
He tends to shut down and won't communicate.
He is jealous of time you spend with your friends or limits your access to your friends.
He has a terrible temper. He yells, doesn't apologize and blames you for it. He says he would stop if you wouldn't provoke him.
In order to avoid dealing with these red-flag situations, look for the following values in your significant other, he says:
Are you attracted to him?
Does he have a good heart?
Does he have the capacity to put other people before himself and empathize with another person's plight?
Does he share your core values? If not, does he at least harbor other fundamental core convictions?
Does he understand that a relationship is the ability for two people to cater the needs of each other (even if they do not understand each other)?
http://www.oprah.com/article/relationships...
Posted By: The SISTAHS Ministry
Friday, December 19th 2008 at 9:21AM
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